On Valentine’s Day we celebrate this wonderful thing called “Love.” On this day, we thank our special ones by showering them with love and making them feel special.
Love is a feeling of strong or constant affection for a person. When we love someone, their happiness means the world to us and gives meaning to our world.
Couples definitely know the importance of Valentine’s Day. Although we can express love for each other on any other day, Valentine’s Day is especially meaningful. On this day, Saint Valentine was martyred in 270 CE by the emperor Claudius II Gothicus. Saint Valentine felt in love with a jailer’s daughter and wrote her a love letter signed “from your Valentine” before his death.
Couples celebrate their love for each other by showering them with gifts and affection. And if you love someone, you would do the same thing. But have you felt like Valentine’s Day is getting repetitive, because there is literally nothing new to do? Even if you want to shop for new things, every year the same old gifts and stuff get sold. It’s boring to visit the same restaurants and places every year.
If you want to do something new for your girlfriend, fiancee or wife and make her feel extra special, then you’ve come to the right place. I’ve listed below the things you can do to make her feel special this year:
Plan Ahead
If you want to make her feel extra special on Valentine’s Day, it is a smart idea to begin preparations a few days or even weeks ahead. If you plan a day in advance, the day may feel rushed. You know what they say, “A garden is half made when it is well planned.”
While planning you should think about your partner’s likes and dislikes. P.S. don’t force her into doing things she doesn’t want.
Surprise Her in the Morning
Early morning sets the tone for the entire day. You can plan a surprise for her in the morning and really make her day.
Get some roses and love poems/songs ready in the morning to blow her mind away.
You can cook her favorite meals and serve them on her bed as a surprise. If you S.O. is an early riser and likes to get out for her morning exercise, then you can plan a morning hike to somewhere wonderful.
Jar filled with Love Notes
When you truly love someone, you’ll love even the smallest things about them. So, why not fill up a jar full of paper with each piece of paper describing the things that you love about her.
The effort you put into making her feel special will not be unnoticed. Your favorite thing about her might be her laugh or the way she acts in certain situations. So why not write them down in a small love notes and gift it to her?
If you are confused about what to write on Love notes, CLICK HERE.
Cook For Her and Plan a Special Dinner
Girls love it when their men cook for them. It’s such a simple and effective way of showing love and gesture.
You can cook her favorite meals and plan an intimate candlelight dinner with her. You can follow the advice given below to make the dinner extra special for her:
- Clean the table and decorate with candles and flowers
- Use air-freshener and incense to make whole room smell good
- Put on some romantic light music
- Make special menu for Snacks, main lunch and dinner
- Never make her do the dishes
Plan a Getaway
There is nothing more romantic and refreshing than planning a getaway with your loved one. If she has a hectic and stressful professional life, then a getaway will do wonders for her and you both.
When planning a getaway, it doesn’t have to be fancy nor extremely far. You should plan according to your budget. You can choose romantic getaways near your city (at least 1-2 hours drive from the city).
Just make sure the place has lots of fun activities to keep you guys engaged. Plus if the place has a view of the ocean, sunrise or beaches and other natural scenery, then it’ll be perfect.
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Schedule an Home Mani/Pedi
What could be better than pampering your S.O. in the comfort of your own home? For women, getting a manicure or pedicure is like having a mini vacation. So, why not plan an at home manicure/pedicure service for her?
Likewise, you can also opt for massages, facials and more if she isn’t into nails.
Write a Love Letter
“A love letter? Are you kidding me?”
I know what you are thinking, a love letter is too old fashioned. But when was the last time you wrote one?
Write a love letter expressing all the things you feel about her. Make it special by placing it inside an envelope, and serving it along with the breakfast. Or you can also hang it on doorways, kitchen, washroom or any other part of the house for her to discover.
If you want to take it to the next level, you can write multiple love letters and tape them around the house. She’ll instantly feel special and loved from this lovely gesture.
Give her Undivided Attention and Have Deep Conversation
One of the most meaningful gifts you can give to someone is your time. When was the last time both of you sat together and just talked without any interruption?
A relationship flourishes when there is communication between the partners. But due to the modern lifestyle and non stop hustle culture, we often get too busy to even enjoy each other’s company or even give time.
If both of you haven’t had a deep conversation in a while, plan a quiet night with her. You can talk about various topics, discuss new stuff she is interested in or create your own topics as you move along. Ask her about her new favorite movies, her dreams and ambitions, her view on things. Just make sure to focus only on her and nothing else.
Give A Thoughtful Gift
If she is recently struggling with something, then why not gift her something that will help her. It shows your observant nature and how much you really care about her. For example, if she gets cold often then why not gift her sweater, heater or hand made gloves?
Once i gave my girlfriend a framed photo of us, which she loved very much. She still talks about how much she loves it.
Do What She Wants
If you’re really confused about what to do on Valentine’s day, then why not ask her? If you do what she wants, she’ll definitely love it. She is your woman, so go and give her whatever she wants. You can go skiing, trekking, snorkeling, swimming anything she chooses.
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